Girls Girls Girls

Today, was a day about Girls. the HBO show (which i'm officially obsessed with) as well as my girlfriends. i'm pretty honored that everyone has been venting to me and coming to me for advice about:

relationships relationships relationships.

no lie, i've been vented to about 4 different people's relationships today, which is perfectly fine. i'm all for giving out advice. i just find it so ironic? or fascinating. i honestly don't even know what to say. i'm at a loss for words because of how ridiculous my life seems to be right now. it just seems as if my life is surrounded by relationships. everyone is having this kind of relationship or that kind of relationship. i've  realized that every relationship is unique in its own way, which makes it difficult for me to give out advice sometimes. i'm not the predictor of the future and relationships shouldn't necessarily be categorized. the mystery of true love is that no one really knows much about it. there is no concrete evidence. just subjective. feelings, emotions, senses, thoughts. i guess you can say that we're blindly groping our way around to figure out what this love really is. the love that everyone is after. now, i'm starting to get a little philosophical...

Lovesick

but, i do always wonder, what really makes a successful relationship? how does true love work? is there a specific formula or route? overanalyzing it is probably not the best path to take; therefore, i try to focus on the present. don't worry about the future until the present becomes the future. since i work for a cupcake store i imagine my customers eating their cupcakes. think about the process of eating a cupcake. you don't worry about the end after having eaten the cupcake before you eat it, you just focus on how good it tastes and the smile it brings to your lips. in other words, if things are going well, don't search for problems or mistakes. just be happy and be grateful